The summer holiday is the one yearly precious chance families get to own their children from school. Even the parents who look forward to cherishing their children the most, may still find moments that would test the patience of a saint.<\/p>\n
Step forward then Denise Knowles, a Relate family counsellor, with some sage advice to get everyone through the daily irritations before it blows up like TNT.<\/p>\n
Denise says: \u00a0\u201cMost of us look forward to the summer holidays. But sometimes, it can end up feeling like a very long time to keep the kids entertained. Tempers can get frayed and families can end up counting down the days until September begins. But summer is actually a good time to reconnect with all the important relationships in your life \u2013 from your kids and your partner to your friends and wider family.\u201d<\/p>\n
Denise offers six simple tips to help families survive the summer break:<\/p>\n
\u00b7 Planning together. Whether you\u2019re going on holiday or staying put, it\u2019s important to plan together as a family. Make everyone feel involved in plans and keep a chart with everyone\u2019s wishes on it.<\/p>\n
\u00b7 Make hay while the sun shines. Make the most of what\u2019s special about summer. Go for family walks during those long warm evenings, or arrange a World Cup party. If not everyone\u2019s keen to watch the game then compromise: time spent watching football could be matched by time doing something everyone can enjoy. Also, look out for free or cheap music events and summer schools arranged by local authorities.<\/p>\n
\u00b7 Turn down the heat. Arguments are often a part of family life, but take care to diffuse tensions before things get too heated. If your children are arguing, ask them to go into separate rooms and take five. You can do this too if you\u2019re getting wound up.<\/p>\n
\u00b7 Switch off. If you have time off work, try to make sure it\u2019s really time off. So long as your boss is understanding, try not to check emails or work phones and really focus on enjoying time with your family.<\/p>\n
\u00b7 Reconnect. It\u2019s common for parents not to see their friends as much, especially when children are very young. But summer provides a chance for reconnecting as there are lots of activities, like picnics and barbeques where parents and children from different families can get together.<\/p>\n
\u00b7 Keep things sizzling. During the summer, older kids are often out doing their own thing, so this is a good opportunity for investing some time in your relationship with your partner.<\/p>\n
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Relate offers information, advice and counselling for all stages of your relationships. Call 0300 100 1234 or visit www.relateorg.uk for more information.<\/p>\n
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