{"id":26396,"date":"2016-06-28T12:37:58","date_gmt":"2016-06-28T11:37:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/chopsybaby.com\/magazine\/?p=26396"},"modified":"2018-07-02T13:54:14","modified_gmt":"2018-07-02T12:54:14","slug":"cannot-bond-with-your-baby-its-not-uncommon-ask-your-health-care-professional-for-help","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/chopsybaby.com\/magazine\/cannot-bond-with-your-baby-its-not-uncommon-ask-your-health-care-professional-for-help\/","title":{"rendered":"Cannot Bond With Your Baby? 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We hope our research reassures new parents that they are not alone if they don\u2019t instantly bond with their baby and that this can often take time.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cGPs, midwives and health visitors can also play an important role in promoting bonding and it is important that this subject is raised and parents are encouraged to speak up if there is a problem.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;Bonding&#8217; is all about the emotional connection between a parent and baby. It&#8217;s a crucial development for a baby to have to help them deal with stress, learning and social skills. 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